“hold off, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 105: finest Intercourse Actually ever | Autostraddle

All of our episode topic recently is perfect Sex extremely our company is writing on… the number one intercourse we’ve ever endured! We are joined by Autostraddle writer, poet, and journalist Dani Janae even as we enter into some passionate stories followed by an in-depth conversation regarding what helps make great intercourse quality. Therefore we spend a lot period back at my sexual hang ups that i might or may not have in fact done plenty of work on this summer!

Arrive for all the lesbian movie-themed video game, stay for coming.


PROGRAM RECORDS

+
The 200 Best Lesbian+ Videos list
that Christina pulled the video game from.

+ If you haven’t read Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
series you actually must.

+
This is actually the essay
We composed concerning person I discuss throughout the event. It’s only already been 2 years but really has evolved!

+ The summer has gone by and we nevertheless stan Olivia Rodrigo. View the
“intense” songs movie
.



Dani:

The cat plus the dog were inside space there had been cat and dog hair everywhere. And so, I became seriously having an allergic impulse although we were having sexual intercourse. Nevertheless the orgasm was like chef’s hug. It actually was the most wonderful, great knowledge literally.


Christina:

I question if it is something regarding the hives that basically included a little

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic knowledge.


Theme song plays


Drew:

Thanks for visiting

Hold off, Is It a romantic date?


Christina:


Wait, Is It a romantic date?

is an Autostraddle podcast about, you guessed it, matchmaking.


Drew:

Yay! I Enjoy dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I’m a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and merely basic trans gay person all over internet and… I became likely to say globe, but it is truly similar to Los Angeles and New York.


Christina:

I love this globe-trotting gay character you are taking on here in 2021.


Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s for the future.


Christina:

Yeah. Im the additional host, Christina Tucker, additionally a writer for Autostraddle, deranged noisy homosexual on the internet. Merely types of away right here, authorship, being homosexual, doing what we can every minute to attempt to work through this life that we’re living.


Drew:

You are truly doing it. You are really operating during that life.


Christina:

Frankly, its all i could perform. Which is all We have, oahu is the sole option.


Drew:

I truly respect the effort.


Christina:

The make an effort to stay?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Actually, actually fearless of us to actually try it. You are not incorrect, you are not wrong. Can you be interested in playing a tiny bit online game nowadays, Drew?


Drew:

Oh my God, I’m thus excited. Cannot hold off to see what you have in my situation.


Christina:

I am so glad you said that since you completely need certainly to say yes, for the reason that it’s element of this deal that we’ve created here. So you might be aware of the truth that on autostraddle.com, the web site, we’ve a list of 200 lesbian motion pictures.


Drew:

I am aware from it. I might have written it.


Christina:

You’ve probably. The thing I do is actually take a selection of 10 of those films. I stored these to the best 50. I’ll supply you with the story keyword phrases as determined by users on IMDb and you are likely to have to guess what film it is.


Drew:

Okay. I simply wish the audience, anywhere you happen to be, to know that I’m not gonna pull up record. I think you heard that right, am We assuming that’s correct in how I is respecting the game?


Christina:

In my opinion which is really respectful and that I believe that’s fair. In addition types of confidence this particular is certainly going end up being something pops into their heads fairly possible for you, I didn’t go also left.


Drew:

I’ve a dreadful storage, but yes, i’ll attempt to set men and women up for low objectives.


Christina:

Reasonable enough.


Drew:

So if i really do well, its like type of hit all of them out, incase Really don’t do well, they’ll be like, “Well, she pointed out…” Anyways, continue. Let’s begin this.


Christina:

Let’s beginning. I shall start off with pretty general types and I are certain to get a lot more specific even as we get, because a few of them are practically exactly what the movie is within two words. Therefore wewill you will need to focus on a wider knowledge here.


Drew:

I adore it.


Christina:

The basic movie: drugs could be the first story word. New york, new york is the 2nd. Hate crime will be the next.


Drew:

Okay.

It Is Throughout Me.


Christina:

Yes, truly! See, I knew you will be able to do this.


Drew:

Great.


Christina:

We positively understood you would certainly be able to do this.


Drew:

Additionally, I just should try to let folks realize that that will be perhaps one of the most underrated lesbian movies, and you also really should view it. And Leisha Hailey for the reason that film happens to be my personal phone background for two years. So just a great small reality here for several people.


Christina:

We like that. Fine, movie number two. “not known daddy,” body organ donor, cemetery, loss of daughter. Oh, she actually is thinking.


Drew:

I feel like I should undoubtedly get this predicated on — hold off, not known parent, loss of son, organ donor. Oh,

Exactly About My Mummy.


Christina:

Indeed there it really is, see.


Drew:

A different one of my preferences.


Christina:

It is very thrilling to see what men and women determine are a storyline key phrase that they must extract from the films. I’m in addition not checking out any of the ones which are simply lesbian for the reason that it looks kind of like a gimme.


Drew:

That’s how I assembled most of the list as if you appear up lesbian flicks, that which you found ended up being the existing Autostraddle listing or some lists that are not very comprehensive, and so I would really search through databases regarding the key words of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these things like ladies kissing, these specific things, and discover movies where they may be perhaps not regarded as a lesbian film since they are a little more interesting, or perhaps a bit less direct, that is certainly the way I discovered certain flicks which are now from the list, thus full circle.


Christina:

Tune in, IMDb key words arriving handy for everyone all the time. This package, people went untamed on this one. So just browsing read some haphazard terms for your requirements. Hey, whistling, girl, black sporting events bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on the job collision.


Drew:

At work crash? Oh, I thought I had it after which, really—


Christina:

Cold, in parentheses, the temperature.


Drew:

Due to the fact at first I became probably state

Foxfire,

but then the on the job collision changed me personally right up. Working crash.


Christina:

Are you wanting even more?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Vehicle accidents through a fence.


Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

Because at work crash might possibly be a very dreadful way of explaining that certain with the gay as you’re attempting to convert to not gayness, tries to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate on their own. That’d be rather intense, but I didn’t know aided by the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is exactly tricking me personally upwards.


Christina:

Do you want a few more from me?


Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m sure its something which I’m just not… Yeah, continue.


Christina:

Mention of a school loan. They’re very walnuts.


Drew:

Hold off, maybe you have viewed this motion picture?


Christina:

I have seen this movie.


Drew:

Can it be wild that I’m not getting hired?


Christina:

It is just a little wild. I could provide per year, if you like a year.


Drew:

Should you decide provide me personally annually, We’ll surely have it.


Christina:

Okay. 2016 will be your season.


Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me the goals.


Christina:

It will be the film,

Various Ladies,

2016.


Drew:

Oh! Yeah.


Christina:

I really believed vehicle accidents through a barrier would get you, but I also just love these people merely pulling-out nouns and just getting like, “male.” Would be that what you think?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

That is a good motion picture. I want to see that once again.


Christina:

It’s. It really is a fantastic film.


Drew:

Yeah, its a very fantastic movie.


Christina:

Okay, the then film. Kissing whilst having sex.


Drew:

Ideal sorts of both, perhaps, in ways.


Christina:

Attraction, dude farm.


Drew:

Is it

Desert Hearts?


Christina:

Yeah. So I was actually like, “Okay, you’ve got attain that from then on one.” One other one I was probably give you was — “nipples” ended up being the truly plainly featured. And I also was actually like, “Sure, that will be section of that film.”


Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You probably know how there is every one of these annoying men and women on the market trying to be Shane. Sorry, after all, if you should be trying to be Shane, we take you. But me, my personal frustrating thing would be that i am wanting to end up being Cay. Cay in this flick is like this is certainly just who i believe of just like the type lesbian that I want to be.


Christina:

Yeah, that’s true, can verify. All right, tend to be we prepared in regards to our after that any?


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Season—


Drew:

Hold off, no, I have something else to state about

Desert Hearts.


Christina:

Sure.


Drew:

After the last time I re-watched it throughout the summertime, it kind of delivered myself into a slight spiral, and I also texted this older semi-closeted person who I had kind of started tentatively willing to date or day whatever, and that has vanished for a month, and I had given up on because I really don’t beg men and women to date myself. But I just ended up being want, “Okay.” I saw

Desert Hearts

and that I had been want, “i assume perhaps sometimes men and women have their own internalized whatever.” And I texted the girl and that I stated, “If we never ever meet, In my opinion you will regret it.” And in addition we performed fulfill, making sure that’s exactly what

Desert Hearts

may do to you.


Christina:

Wow, that is a truly powerful recommendation.


Drew:

We most likely shouldn’t have fulfilled. I most likely needs simply give it time to be. But anyways, moving forward, subsequent flick.


Christina:

The then movie, metaphysics, world during opening loans — what meaning, it is for you to decide — senior school soccer, Chicago, Illinois.


Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.


Christina:

There you decide to go.


Drew:

Which is another great film. I prefer that We keep being amazed from this list that I’d a rather strong hand-in positioning. It isn’t really my personal ranking, but i did so have a huge say inside the positioning and that I love it.


Christina:

Yeah. I just want to be obvious to you personally and our very own audience — once more, I chose through the top 50, so these are typically great people. From the great people, they’re good ones. I know Drew’s going to continually say that is an excellent film after each and every one, but—


Drew:

They’re great movies, you guys should enjoy all of them.


Christina:

Okay. Short dress with heels.


Drew:

Think it’s great.


Christina:

Cock blocked, mini top with footwear.


Drew:

After all, could it be

Blockers?


Christina:

It is far from. That might be too easy, In my opinion, for

Blockers.


Drew:

I don’t bear in mind any miniskirts, but—


Christina:

Feminine back nudity.


Drew:

Okay. Hold off the second. Okay, just what another. Okay, dick blocked, mini skirt, female backside nudity.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break party.


Drew:

Would it be

Bound?


Christina:

It is not.


Drew:

No, I would personally love a rest moving world.


Christina:

I adore some slack moving world in

Certain.


Drew:

Some slack moving scene.


Christina:

I will present: English woman abroad.


Drew:

English woman abroad? It is someone else in which I believe I undoubtedly need to have it.


Christina:

I’m going to must give you a pretty obvious any eventually, making sure thatwill help.


Drew:

Okay, provide myself an evident one.


Christina:

Undercover representative.


Drew:

Can it be

D.E.B.S?


Christina:

It’s not

D.E.B.S.

It is next to

D.E.B.S.,

type of film a good idea. Here is another, intrigue.


Drew:

Okay, hold off, there’s not that many genre films.


Christina:

You will findn’t, that is correct.


Drew:

Undercover broker. Really, perhaps they truly are making use of the phrase, could it possibly be

The Handmaiden?


Christina:

It is not.


Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think-so. Undercover representative.


Christina:

Would you like your year?


Drew:

I Imagined that… Positive.


Christina:

Your season is actually 2017.


Drew:

Undercover broker.


Christina:

I am therefore sorry. You will feel very dumb as I state the name of the one.


Drew:

Oh no.


Christina:

I’m truly sorry about this, but that is type just the method the cookie crumbles.


Drew:

Oh, it really is

Carol.


Christina:

No, it isn’t

Carol.


Drew:

No, it says 2015.


Christina:

Yes, I Understand that. It isn’t really

Carol.


Drew:

But there is an undercover — the man, this is where I became thinking. Okay, what-is-it? How come it generate me feel dumb?


Christina:

It Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.


Drew:

Oh, that is inside top 50?


Christina:

It really is. I know.


Drew:

Oh, okay.


Christina:

Fine. We’ve got four more, you ready?


Drew:

I do not think silly because that one I… I mean, i believe

Atomic Blonde

is actually enjoyable, but I do not consider its fantastic. That will not be in my own personal very top 50. I really do want society to find out that i understand that

Carol

arrived in 2015. My head hurt. I recently want the whole world to understand that. Anyways, carry on.


Christina:

The whole world now understands that, the record has become shown. All righty: restaurant, feeling of scent, novelist, regard to a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, based on memoir, alcoholic, theft, woman wears glasses, living alone, ruining research.


Drew:

The regard to Larry King is truly—


Christina:

It really is an extremely weird one.


Drew:

Mention of Larry King, destroying evidence.


Christina:

Cat.


Drew:

Oh, could it possibly be

Can You Ever Forgive Me Personally?


Christina:

It really is.


Drew:

I had to develop to redeem me. I was actually in a slump here.


Christina:

You nailed it. In my opinion you have there, I do believe you positively got indeed there. Okay, three more, all of our leading three. I do believe these types is going to be easy for you because i understand you.


Drew:

Great, okay, really…


Christina:

I know, but i am saying, are you ready?


Drew:

Okay, yeah.


Christina:

Psychological state, medicine overdose.


Drew:

Would it be

Foxfire?


Christina:

No. Photographer.


Drew:

Oh,

Higher.


Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, girl group.


Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.


Christina:

I was like, “Oh, she’s going to merely hold guessing

Foxfire

until i recently give her

Foxfire.”


Drew:

The secret is the fact that I favor

Foxfire

and I keep planning to think about

Foxfire.


Christina:

I am talking about, whomst in our midst?


Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.


Christina:

Okay. This 1, one of these is actually—


Drew:

This is actually the final one?


Christina:

This is basically the last one. This will be our very own last any. Church, denial, family interactions.


Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?


Christina:

It’s not.


Drew:

Would it be

But I’m a Cheerleader?


Christina:

Really, yes.


Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.


Christina:

Jokes on laughs. In order for was actually the online game i am phoning, how good Does Drew understand Lesbian Movies???


Drew:

I like how good the audience is creating brands for the video games.


Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that I even blogged that inside the title of a Bing Doc, that which was I thinking? That does not actually appear great during my Bing Docs.


Drew:

I had an enjoyable experience and I’m actually happy that i eventually got to inform all of the listeners about most of the movies which they should enjoy. And then we’ll put the list in show records.


Christina:

Definitely.


Drew:

I would personally declare that record has grown to be at a location in which i believe you’d get one thing of enjoying all 200 flicks. One version of the list, there seemed to be some things on the website that I became not too pleased about. There still is stuff i do believe that Really don’t individually but I think that as a whole, there is a certain quality control after that latest enhance that i’m extremely pleased with and I believe they’re all really worth seeing.


Christina:


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